Soccer is a game of balance in more ways than one. Off the field, families must integrate soccer with school and other aspects of life. Fortunately, this is easier than achieving a hat trick. The following tips and tricks can help manage the chaos:
📅 Use a Calendar
While some people still choose to write things down in a paper calendar, a digital calendar provides a more straightforward way to ensure everyone is on the same page. Include as much information as possible in this calendar, such as game times, practice schedules, meal times, school functions, and appointments.
🧘Don’t Ditch the Downtime
Even the most dedicated soccer players need to unwind and relax from time to time. Since soccer is a high-energy, intense game, taking downtime to recharge is crucial in preventing kids from burning out. Having one day a week with no soccer discussions or practices, encouraging your child to explore other activities (like painting, video games, or music), and inviting friends over can help your child remember that while soccer might be the center of their life, it’s not everything life has to offer.
🛑 Set Boundaries
Boundaries provide a means of protection, and establishing boundaries around your child’s soccer commitment prevents that commitment from turning into resentment. For instance, if a tournament is scheduled during a time when your child plans to go on vacation or attend summer camp for a week, be prepared to say no and give your child the freedom to seek adventure away from the field.
👋 Foster Personal Responsibility
When kids are young, parents have little choice but to micromanage soccer preparedness; otherwise, your child might show up to practice wearing Crocs instead of cleats. As children grow older, however, fostering personal responsibility can teach them valuable life lessons and relieve caregivers’ responsibilities. Encourage your child to pack their own bag, fill their own water jugs, and wake up on their own on game days.
🗣️ Communicate with Teachers
As children become more committed to their soccer journeys, the likelihood of conflict with school increases. Your child may need to miss a test or a few days due to an out-of-town tournament or a meeting with scouts. Don’t hesitate to advocate for your child by approaching the school and discussing the situation with their teachers. Most teachers are open to allowing kids to make up work for various reasons.
👟 Quick Summary Takeaway
- DO: Utilize a shared calendar, celebrate life beyond soccer, and support your child in the classroom.
- DON'T: Assume your child’s responsibilities, neglect to encourage other interests, or ignore boundaries.
Bottom line: It’s possible to revolve your life around soccer without soccer taking over your life. The tips above help you and your child stay focused on the goal.
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